Your dating experience so far has taught you that looks aren’t everything. Instead, you’re much more interested in finding someone you share an intellectual connection with. However, you’re quickly learning that it’s much more difficult to find someone who can actually hold an intelligent conversation than you ever expected it would be. You’re interested in sapiosexual dating because nothing turns you on quite like a big, throbbing… brain. DatePerfect can help you meet your intellectual match — and maybe even some sexy smarties who can outdo you in terms of brain power. Scroll down to see what we mean. More >>
It’s happened more times than you can count. You’ve picked out an elegant speakeasy, put on that sweater that really brings out your eyes, and were excited for an evening of banter and debate. Your date arrives, looking just as great as you do. You think to yourself, This is going to be a great night. Then, they start talking — and you just can’t stay interested. You leave after one drink, wishing that you’d just stayed home reading Proust or playing chess with your cat (seriously, he might win the MacArthur Genius Grant this year).
It’s not that you’re an elitist. It’s just that you want to be able to talk about what matters to you with someone who actually gets it. You love talking film, literature, and, if the drinks are strong enough, politics with a date. You need someone who can challenge you, someone who forces you to think about things in a new way and from a different perspective. And if they happen to have a Fulbright, a doctorate, or be a national chess champion?
All the better.
If you’re tired of dating people who just don’t seem to have much going on upstairs or if you just find intelligence the biggest turn-on of all, then signing up with intellectual dating sites geared specifically towards sapiosexuals may be the right move for you.
Perhaps you want to meet someone who appreciates all of your references to French New Wave Film. Maybe you’re looking for a partner whose idea of a dream date is looking through the shelves at an old bookstore (you know it’s called bookshelf porn as a joke, but you think it’s actually that sexy). You might even be on the hunt for a date who appreciates the opera, the theater, the museum, or other intellectually stimulating activities that you’re getting tired of enjoying solo.
A dating site for smart people? Yes, please.
You want to stay up all night watching old movies or sit in bed reading your favorite Neruda poems to your lover. You want to get so lost in conversation so that you lose all sense of time and end up talking till sunrise.
But where are you going to meet this person? In this day and age, probably on a sapiosexual dating site.
That’s where we come in. DatePerfect is here to help you find everything you want and need when it comes to dating for intellectuals. We’ve studied up on all the best sapiosexual dating sites and offer you an insider’s look at the best of the best. Ready to meet the Tristan to your Isolde, the Mr. Darcy to your Elizabeth Bennet, or the Peter Abelard to your Héloïse? We’ve got you covered.