As a sugar baby, you know that sugar can come in form of holidays out of town, rent, cash, gifts, business opportunities, college tuition, and designer gear. Unfortunately, most sugar babies are afraid to directly ask their sugar daddies for more. As a sugar baby, you might worry about looking broke, greedy, or materialistic to your guy. You might also feel like you’re not young or beautiful enough to get away with asking for the amount of money you need. This fear is completely normal. But we have some tips that will help you feel good about asking for the sugar you want from your sugar daddy clearly and directly with confidence and grace.
1. Look the Part
As a woman, you probably already know that when you feel good, you’re more attractive to others. If you want to ask for more, you need to look and act the part as well. You don’t have to spend a lot of money on your grooming; you can keep it simple but attractive. It’s the little details that matter. Wear a nice pair of shoes, do your hair and nails, apply some makeup and wear a light fragrance. Do what makes you feel sexy and you’ll exude class and confidence. Use your feminine charm: smile and hold his gaze, flirt with him, and stroke his ego. Remember, the key to looking classy is to make it all look effortless.
2. Build a Connection
Sex may be a major part of the relationship between a sugar daddy and his sugar baby. But the reality is that sex is cheap and easily available, so it can’t be the only thing connecting the two of you. Find your way into his heart by building a deeper connection with him. You can do this by paying close attention to him, his interests, life, frustrations, and what makes him happy or sad. Ask him questions about his life; find out where he grew up, how his childhood was, what his first job was, what his dreams and goals are for the future. Share a bit about yourself, if he’s interested. Send him a cute, sexy or silly picture once in a while with a message like, “Thinking about you…” By doing all these, chances are, you will not need to ask for more money because he will be genuinely interested in taking care of your needs.
3. Be Honest and Straightforward
Both parties in this relationship stand to benefit from one another. No need to pretend like this isn’t the arrangement. Be straightforward and direct about the terms of your relationship, and do it early in the course of getting to know one another. You should be prepared with this information from the beginning so that you can ask him politely but directly for what you’re hoping to get out of this relationship. If he’s reluctant to give you what you ask for, you might want to reconsider the relationship or your terms.
4. Ask for an Allowance
Don’t put yourself in the uncomfortable position of having to ask for money all the time. Once your relationship is established on terms that work for both of you, it makes sense to ask him to give you an allowance once or twice a month. Take a look at all your expenses and decide which ones you’d want him to take care of. It could be your rent, bills, or student loans. If you want more money besides the allowance that you’re already getting, find the right time and ask him politely to give you a specific amount of money for your hair, nails, gym membership, and so on.
The key to getting more money is to make him feel valued and appreciated. If you use these tips and tricks correctly, your sugar daddy will be more than willing to give you more sugar.